穿三年前的衣服录节目 高圆圆承认平庸接受衰老
http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/c/c6/c6127a80b586c5d75ee035ca75154e17.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0淡出公众视野许久的高圆圆，最近在镜头前回归了【时尚芭莎网讯】时尚芭莎http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/3/31/31026ac9030d234be5890df1ec995f6a.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0不是万众瞩目镁光灯下的品牌站台，也不是杯觥交错的活动酒会http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/a/a6/a68de44c3a1363629879a4a0c9351e96.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0反而是舍弃华服与珠宝，穿着三年前去看孕妈贾静雯的那件蓝色衬衣裙，在自己家里对着节目镜头，聊了聊所有人都不能避免的——“爱情、事业与衰老”http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/7/78/7815943e3aa6821ac5d2c295e1525ecf.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/f/f3/f31f58e4a3ce4c36f34ba32eba86a50d.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0“39岁，接受衰老”短短十分钟的采访，时间不长，信息量却多到爆炸。第一个问题就是所有女人、尤其是女明星都在意却又都避免不了的“年龄与衰老”——“40岁快到了，你会害怕衰老吗？”http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/c/ce/cebab8fca91ff64a7af6ce295bfcca37.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0如果不是节目提醒，很多人都不曾记得，高圆圆今年已经39岁了http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/b/bd/bd5dea2bb43bab5516fde0fcc501d0bc.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0似乎在大多数人心中，她还一直是十年前《倚天屠龙记》里眉心一颗红痣、敢爱敢恨的周芷若是《单身男女》里，让古天乐吴彦祖两大帅哥争相追逐的女神程子欣http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/4/4b/4b148972a6fd2e9946000248cf5b55e2.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0然而现实却是，她不是活在戏里的周芷若、也不是永远年轻的程子欣，她是高圆圆，会长皱纹白发、会变老的高圆圆http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/3/3c/3c88f79978ba0afc2c74d706e6d153e2.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0面对年龄增长带来的负面变化，她也顽拧地与时间、与岁月斗争，“很精心在护肤，花很长时间在保养上，我做了我能做的努力，但还是会变老”http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/2/2c/2c69fb583fb43054ce20710f1313d9b3.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/3/32/3261a3ce8cb8226a53a15558f9bef168.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/0/02/02b7bfc9b5b6f8be8209a9aa14758123.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/9/99/996a6b2d0a3882e6dbab0515b32d614e.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0面对不可逆的结果，高圆圆选择坦然接受，“没有人是一夜变老的，对于每个人来说，你都会经历那种过程，第一次长皱纹，第一次冒白发，它是一个你必须接受的事”http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/9/97/97902550e628914c849f4e1d7772c548.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/3/38/389ff1757abd64142606896abb066a0e.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/d/d7/d745f23731acc124f97b4f688e99cbbb.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/1/1f/1ff94126e471c10440f4301b5d818afc.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/c/c5/c50b881496f39ad0be3acde83b294938.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0“四”字开头，不是一件可怕的事，“39岁和40岁，在数字会有个巨大的差别，可在生活状态上，我不认为它一定会有一个天翻地覆的变化”http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/6/60/605e053274d89228d637ef44f348c569.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/b/b9/b9791927f33b3e171bb82528c4b8fd6f.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/2/29/29b8083e06d32ec7b8638e9cbb8d18e6.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/c/c7/c7065c8dbc9a54288b497e3fab4f2bf8.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/3/3e/3e834cbdd98c8199db284b3cbf32d4a9.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/e/ef/ef4dbbe6b1f5e2b538d23498c6db2b40.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0对抗无果的当下，面对衰老，比起害怕，高圆圆更倾向于接受现实http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/d/d6/d6a11473f731aed024815473cadc1276.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0“没有什么变化是到了40岁才发生，也没有什么问题是到了40岁就一定有答案的”，既然做了最大努力却依旧无效，倒不如去拥抱年龄，坦然面对这个人生必经的过程http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/0/0b/0b0f0d7580226fdd30ebb4180cd161e1.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0真正的勇气就是当你认清生活后，还敢继续生活提到高圆圆，大多数人第一印象都是——“美”http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/0/0d/0ddd1757d8415bb5ed3c14496ddd928a.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0从戏中倾国倾城的周芷若，再到街拍里穿搭满分的easy chic，她就一直像是“美”的代名词http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/c/cb/cb65b47c093abbe1b1344c3d5922c371.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0长着一张全民喜欢的初恋脸，拍过名导的高分名作，演过大半个中国都看过的电视剧，还有一个爱她宠她的好老公，这样的高圆圆，冠上一个“人生赢家”的title完全不足为过http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/7/7e/7e82d682bccaa0efb8470b0437f81e89.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0然而没想到的是，39岁的“人生赢家”、我们心中的“国民女神”，形容自己竟然会用“平庸”、这个连普通人都不是那么愿意使用词汇“我发现我很普通，非常的普通。我接受自己的平庸”http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/7/70/70bfb7c15955363f1ac539417ed4d059.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0这个“平庸”，不是顶着绝美脸蛋的矫情卖弄，而是在入行14年后对自己演技业务能力的自我判定“我已经入行14年了，但我还是做的不好，对自己特别失望”http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/e/ee/eeacd3701f48681d5f1aa5d1c488c718.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/8/83/83bffb9fd04249dd96e03308cf1cb8b3.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/c/c6/c628a92cb4ddc6beadf9a622bdf5e629.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/5/5c/5c536598aeeb533cefabfc088a3f4760.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0网上批评演员演技的声音很多，但演员本人说自己演得不好的，高圆圆还是头一个儿http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/1/11/11149d5cb60832ab8caa48b85d071c64.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0“我很想要做一个好演员，自己也常常会对自己不满意。较早的时候觉得自己表演不够出彩，是因为自己没有遇到那些有生命力又充满着矛盾感的角色，但真的给了我那样角色的时候，我其实驾驭能力非常有限”http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/f/f4/f402d7d3584f326e96f491e1f7d3e9e7.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/0/0a/0a104f615de605d44f6ffd80878a6aa6.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/c/c1/c1ad1d37a415dc7e23482d9c7c22e771.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/8/8b/8b8ef4d7f5a9d957a5b17c93bc0bc116.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/f/f0/f08528e24dcc860f054dce8d9817ce48.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/4/41/414689284c70ee5e5eac6961641ff157.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/3/30/30235efb861ca431ff996792cd29b4ed.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/d/de/dee2227ca5159e543c2af2944de54664.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0聊到之前拍的陈凯歌导演名作《搜索》，“一个镜头ng了三十几遍，甚至有场戏刚说了几个字，导演就喊卡就觉得不对了，那时候感觉整个人被打到谷底”http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/f/fb/fb698ac91a3208e12140e669bdc6e959.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/e/ee/eeb1c37d2b043535adef9485b38d3f36.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/b/b9/b9a52585428de4f171f51c15112f7e4b.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/b/bc/bc53f74c8f8b606c2c8ffe293dc2fc54.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/7/76/76068672f583642432d616184a8f0e66.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/7/76/7607484d1aa4cad28bf495ed4815ab96.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0“当你没达到自己对自己期待的时候，那个过程，你真的会觉得自己就是一个平庸的人”http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/8/84/843db0cc33659b8c5d76f1d8d48ed51a.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/a/a6/a63feab01a6512d3eda3d67b2cd1f02c.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/9/95/95b7b43f01ccadf085e9d9315f1cda0c.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/e/ef/ef9887a4c7862c76ce3a4b16bd3060cf.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0当我们听惯了媒体国民女神、街拍女王这样的神仙词汇，似乎没有人会把国民女神和平庸联系到一起，更何况这女神还是极有观众缘的高圆圆http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/b/b2/b21874406723b6e596af5493441f48a1.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0关于平庸，芭姐还记得，之前知乎上曾有这样一个话题＃哪一刻，你意识到自己普通＃，当时看回复，每个答案都让人阵阵心酸http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/1/10/10f8ade2b2ec77997476f40d39071712.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0小时候，被没来由的爱包围的我们，总觉得自己才是全天下最特别、最独一无二、努力就能掌控一切那一个可迈入成人世界后，无数次现实的冲击让我们意识到，这个世界绝大多数存在，不过只是特定年龄下流水线作业的批量生产品http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/3/33/332fbce75773a0d9834b003efc200c80.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0意识到自己平庸，是沮丧的，是悲伤的，是深夜难过到极点却无法与人言说的足够艰辛的过程，使得很少有人愿意面对自己平庸，很少有人愿意去承认自己平庸，更别提在公众场合暴露自己的平庸，然而高圆圆做了这一切http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/8/84/849a8668fb7c2ac5f2e154615cf0cd0b.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0她在采访中用门和宝藏形容自己的演技，“自己心里是有很多扇门的，我期待门里面是有很多宝藏的，但真的有一次两次有机会试图去打开它的时候，你会发现，门里面是空的”http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/d/de/de62dfd35f45526ebb7696dda34a7367.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/f/f0/f0f4bedfa76e6deabb0c53d4b78a5c22.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/5/54/54b96af05863235c23b25dfa66f3eb67.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/2/23/232d81b4658b3a56670eab3a82ef69ab.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/b/b4/b49b9e3cff2cf2659fa6acba47df5e87.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/8/84/84d175b4a8b2bcc769f9f2a9bbb50c52.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0她是演员，靠演戏吃饭，可入行14年的她，对着镜头评价自己却只有一句，“我还是期待着自己能成为一个好演员的，其实自己其实真的就是一个平庸的人”http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/a/ac/acf95365fe360921828343e96cd493ba.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0一句“期待”、一词“平庸”，将自己既往成绩通通抹杀。而我们都知道，留下很多经典作品的她本没有那么差http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/d/d7/d76b94fcc52f6f99b6101f1123bf1527.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0见过太多演员演技吹上天的通稿见过太多明星间颜值的各种“艳压”见过太多艺人沉浸在名不副实的赞美象牙塔里乐不思蜀http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/2/2e/2ea898f3c785a8430fe7087ab724e367.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0所以我们更难想象，对演了14年戏的自己说出这个“平庸”，需要多少勇气，过程多么艰难，心里承受的压力又多么大http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/4/4c/4c0a389a2edd9e09dac2bcf1ec3d598f.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0原来，那个被我们“女神女神”叫着的人，她也有自己的天花板，有自己即便穷尽努力也只能达到的上限http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/0/05/05fede11d2a9c297b4793e99d0d11c67.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0触碰、知晓、了解自己的天花板并不是一件不多么开心的事而比这更难的，就是接受，接受自己的不可为，接受自己能力的极限http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/d/dd/ddb9d7c35a32364e8a96fcfcedf533d2.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0往往，现实中，我们把这个慢慢接受自己平庸的漫长且沮丧的过程，叫做成长http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/6/67/675a9d48fb3749bf1c5cbbd4d9549ab0.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x039岁的高圆圆，用一个采访，把自己从神坛拉入凡间，可我们不会觉得她“平庸”，不会觉得她不再神秘不再可爱http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/d/df/df4480b61ced92c49406b44d48f02bb9.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0相反，我们在她身上、在这个与我们一样有着万千烦恼丝的普通人高圆圆身上，汲取到了很多超美街拍带不来的勇敢力量http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/2/21/213035d2575636cc2e7c9077f48deb25.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0“真正的勇气，就是当你认清生活后，还敢继续生活；真正的梦想，是当你发现自己普通平庸后，还敢继续追求”http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/a/af/af4733ee708860d6ba05deb3d3c339f4.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0高圆圆的39岁，接受衰老、承认平庸，对自我认知无比清醒，活得比谁都明白且勇敢三分http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/f/ff/ff2541a9d8ea08c5c4f2096e968669c4.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0在高圆圆这篇采访下面，多年老友苏有朋这样评论，“這樣諏嵉拿鎸Α⒎窒碜约海糜卸嘤赂摇？赐暝L談，對應自己的生活和題，我很有收穫，希望你也是”http://cms-bucket.nosdn.127.net/catchpic/3/3f/3f6dc2e5c05adb47ca1c887eb35ee218.jpg?imageView&thumbnail=550x0这句话芭姐也送给大家，“看完访谈，对应自己的生活和题，我很有收获，希望你也是”
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